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Cruel to Be Kind

Nick Lowe
Chords & TabKeyGintermediate
4.9(527)

Chords in this song13

Intro

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Verse 1

| / / / / | Oh, I can't take another ...heartache,
Though you say you're my friend, I'm at my wits end,
You say your love is ...bona fide,
But that don't ...coin - cide...
...With the things that you do,
And when I ask you to be nice, you say...

Chorus

You gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure,
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign,
^ ^
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you...
Baby-----------------, you gotta be cruel to be kind
(Babe-------------!)
(You gotta be cruel!)
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Verse 2

Well, I do my best to under - stand, dear,
But, you still mystify and I wanna know why,
I pick myself up ...off the ground,
To have you ...knock me back down,
Again and a - gain,
And when I ask you to ex - plain, you say...

Chorus

You gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure,
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign,
^ ^
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you...
Baby-----------------, you gotta be cruel to be kind
(Babe-------------!)
(You gotta be cruel!)
[Bridge] (Tablature of solo at bottom of page)
Oo, oo-oo! Oo- oo, oo! | / / / / | / / / / |
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Verse 3

Well, I do my best to under - stand, dear,
But, you still mystify and I wanna know why,
I pick myself up ...off the ground,
To have you ...knock me back down,
Again and a - gain,
And when I ask you to ex - plain, you say...

Chorus

You gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure,
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign,
^ ^
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you...
Baby---------------------------!
(Babe--------------------!)
(You gotta be cruel!)

Chorus

You gotta be cruel to be kind------------,
(Cruel to be kind!)
Oh, in the right measure, (Cruel to be kind!)
It's a very, very, very good sign------------,
^ ^ (Cruel to be kind!)
It means that I love you...
Baby---------------------------!
(Babe--------------------!)
(You gotta be cruel!)

Chorus

You gotta be cruel to be kind------------,
(Cruel to be kind!)
Oh, in the right measure, (Cruel to be kind!)
It's a very, very, very good sign------------,
^ ^ (Cruel to be kind!)
It means that I love you...
Baby---------------------------!
(Babe--------------------!)
(You gotta be cruel!)

Suggestion for coda

You gotta be cruel to be kind--------------!
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Bridge - Guitar break

(F) (G/D) (Em) (Am/E)
e|--5------7----|--7--7-7------8--8--|
B|--6------8----|--8--8-8-----10-10--|
G|--5------7----|--9--9-9------9--9--|  [x3]
D|--------------|--------------------|
A|--------------|--------------------|
E|--------------|--------------------|
(G7sus4) (C/G) (G) (F) (G) (Dm) (C)
e|----b12--|-12-----10------|-8----7----5----3-----|
B|---------|---13-----12----|--10----8----6----5---|
G|---------|-----12-----12--|----10----9----7----5-|
D|---------|----------------|----------------------|
A|---------|----------------|----------------------|
E|---------|----------------|----------------------|
b = bend note up a half-step
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For the GUITAR chord box diagrams to match my
suggested choices you need to manually select the
following choice of options by clicking on the
forward/backward arrows below three of the diagrams
G G7sus4 G7
<4 of 27> <4 of 21> <6 of 41>
All the other chord boxes should be the default
first option and don't need any reselecting

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